It’s National Adoption month. A time to celebrate and advocate for adoption and foster care. It’s also a time find our place in caring for the millions of orphaned children who will never be adopted due to varying situations.
As you may already know, we’ve been through the adoption process twice; once in Ethiopia and then in China. Our son was just eight months old when we brought him home and our daughter was 5 1/2 years old. You can read more about those stories and “older child” adoption by clicking here.
I also work for an adoption agency, America World Adoption Agency, as the Director of Missions and have the privilege of sending skilled teams to support and enhance care for children and teens living in orphanages overseas.
Today, as someone who is deeply connected to the plight of orphans I would like to provide a few resources for those of you who have heard from God, but don’t yet know how to get involved in the Biblical and holy mandate to care for orphaned children.
International adoption has steadily declined in the past few years. Corruption, politics and long timelines have taken their toll on this process. Yet, there are still ethical programs with waiting children who are in need of forever families. China and India adoption programs both have countless waiting children. Children in these programs have minor to moderate medical needs and can thrive with the love of a family and access to medical care and specialists. Our hearts break when we see the number of children waiting with vision impairments and blindness. We have seen first hand how a child can thrive with access to Braille and vision services.
There are several avenues to answer the call to adopt domestically. Families can contact their local agency or work with a consultation organization like Christian Adoption Consultants. Foster to adopt is, of course, another option for families hoping to adopt domestically… but I advise caution to anyone who becomes a foster parent with adoption as their primary goal. While adoption is often an outcome, it should not necessarily be the goal for foster families.
In 2016-2018, records show that 437,465 children are currently in the foster care system, and this number is projected to grow. Foster care is meant to be a safe, temporary solution for children when their parents are working through a number of challenges. More than half of the cases in the foster care system have the goal of reunification. If you are interested in becoming a safe, nurturing place for a child in crisis click here to learn more about how to access resources in your state. There are also private programs that offer safe places for children such as Safe families and Jonah’s Journey. These programs may be a better fit for some families.
Sponsorship can often be a life-giving and life-saving tool for children living in difficult situations. Sponsorship can provide an education, medical care, supplemental nutrition and much more. Here is a list of sponsorship programs I recommend.
Save the Children (both U.S. and International)
If you and your family are looking to grow your family through the gift of adoption, become foster parents or simply support a child who desperately needs it I hope you found some great resources above. If you have any specific questions please reach out to me or use the comments section below.